Florence Hartley's The Ladies’ Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness: A Complete Hand Book for the Use of the Lady in Polite Society is not merely a guide to proper manners, but a window into the social expectations and values of 19th-century society. This comprehensive manual delves into every aspect of a lady's life, from conversation and dress to travel, visiting, and even managing servants. Hartley's work emphasizes the importance of not only outward behavior but also the inner qualities of kindness, modesty, and self-respect. This summary explores the depth of her insights and advice, offering a glimpse into a bygone era while still providing relevant lessons for contemporary readers.
